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WITD 101.56 Singletail Grip with a Flogger15 viewsTraditionally a singletail is gripped by placing the heel knot in the palm of the hand forming a sort of ball and socket. Regardless of the singletail style or technique you are throwing or even the grip variation you are using this heel knot in the palm is commonly used. What if you place the heel knot of a flogger in the palm of your hand? What advantages and disadvantages are there in throwing a flogger with this grip?Jan 07, 2023
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WITD 101.54 Different Flogging Styles21 viewsThere are many different styles that evolve when throwing floggers. Sometimes the design of the tail influences throwing style. A traditional handle style flogger lends itself to swinging with the whole arm or using more wrist as the flogger is thrown either in a figure 8 or rotated as a fan blade. Finger floggers lend themselves to more poi spinning style and are easier to throw florentine and different spinning patterns with than a handle flogger. The handle of a traditional flogger can be used to add leverage to a throw if it is grasped by the heel knot instead of being grasp at the balance point.Jan 07, 2023
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Leather Houses 101.10 Building a Lifestyle Bed2 viewsIn 24 years in the lifestyle I've had the opportunity to build 4 lifestyle beds and also to own a house that had 2500 sq. ft. of dungeon space. The dungeons were used once or twice a month, the lifestyle bed was used every night. In prioritizing got to haves, move building a lifestyle bed to the top of your to-do list.Jan 07, 2023
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07 - What is a Little10 viewsCG/L relationships are part of the BDSM/leather scene. Caregiver and little relationships can take on a variety of roles. Littles can be literally any shape, size and age and can take the role of infant, early childhood or adolescent usually the submissive or childlike half of the relationship. The Dominant whether Daddy Dom, Mommy Domme or Caregiver usually is the dominant. However, sometimes the little takes the roll of Daddy or Mommy dominant just as in vanilla life children often dress up and play Mommy or Daddy. Littles require nurturing, love and protection. Rewards, expectations, establishing limits and requiring a respect for those limits sometimes results in discipline or punishment. Often a slap on the hand, time out in the corner or grounding is appropriate. Sometimes they simply need a spanking if corporal punishment has been negotiated.Dec 31, 2022
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WITD 101.53 Discretely Carrying Toys12 viewsFinding the perfect toybag is an adventure into itself. Often repurposing bags originally designed for a vanilla purpose are the most discrete way to carry toys. Guitar gig bags, arrow cases, even the toolbag from Home Depot. Some cases might cause undue and unwanted attention. So thoughtfully avoid those. A gun case might be perfect for carrying canes, but someone seeing you carrying it into a venue might mistakenly think you have an AR-15 in it. Learn to discretely carry your toys into a home, event or venue by carefully choosing your bag or carrying case.Dec 31, 2022
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WITD 101.52 Different Flogger Hand Holds17 viewsThere are numerous ways to hold a flogger. The most energy efficient is to hold it on the handle balance point. But a flogger can be held by gripping the heel knot, using a finger point grip, using a thumb push grip, using a poi style or finger flogger style grip, using a reverse hand hold. No wrong or right way as long is it is fun and it works for you and doesn't affect your accuracy or skill with the flogger.Dec 31, 2022
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WITD 101.52a Flogger Hand Holds14 viewsTraditionally floggers are held with a hand shake grip on the handle balance point of a well made balanced flogger. But there are many different holds and grips that can be used. Floggers are fun and every way to throw them adds a new dimension to impact play.Dec 31, 2022
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WITD 101.51 Flogger Balance17 viewsRevisiting flogger balance. Demonstration of several well balanced floggers as compared to a flogger that is not balanced well both by the same flogger maker.Dec 31, 2022
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WITD 501.22 Matched Set 12 Plait 4 ft7 viewsExtended discussion of a standard target bullwhip build in 12 plait single color matched set of 4' bullwhips. Normally built with 6" handles, some explanation of why I personally prefer 9" handles for my throwing style and discussion of why articulation is slightly better with 16 plait as compared to 12 plait.Dec 29, 2022
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WITD 301.34 Airing Out Various Whip Makers Various Bullwhips8 viewsEvery few months I throw whips that are not part of my normal dungeon toybag. This session included whips by Peter Jack, Viper, Peter Thorndike, Johnny Ohgren, Desert Minx, and Evan Fava. All great whip makers and wonderful whips. I point out small things about each whip that keep them out of my normal toybag loadout. Small nuances.Dec 29, 2022
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05 - Hankie Codes6 views05 What is a Hankie Code?
Handkerchief codes have been around for decades and modern ones seem to use all of the colors in the crayon box so every sexual appetite is represented. However, originally hankie codes covered mostly the primary colors. Bob Damron's Address Book (1980) has 12 hankie codes that were in use in the 70's and 80's in gay bars and clubs. Lesbian hankie codes are very similar with mustard being the main difference. Mustard on the lesbian code system indicates a foot fetish, while on the gay chart indicates 8+ inches. Modern pansexual clubs seem to be using a wrist band system more so than hankie codes.Dec 29, 2022
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06 - Wristband System4 views06 What is a Wristband System?
The modern clubs and groups, at least in the pansexual leather community, seem to be migrating away from a hankie code. Perhaps in a way to provide order and clarity for those interested in BDSM but not specifically interested in leather. There seems to be a trend to using a wristband system and the use of colored wristbands and their meanings varies from organization to organization and club to club, dungeon to dungeon. But the consistency is Dom/Top still flag on the left wrist, and sub/bottom flag on the right wrist. Beyond that pay close attention to the colors and what they mean at the particular venue or group you are attending. Use them to fit in and be a conversation starting point if nothing else.Dec 29, 2022
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