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Leather Houses 101.11 Psychology Behind Building a Lifestyle Bed5 viewsDeciding what size bed to build involves many factors. What size bed are you used to sleeping in, what size sheets and blankets do you currently own, and sometimes how tall or husky you are. But the psychology behind the closeness and safety we felt as an infant in a crib, can be transferred into our sleep experiences as an adult. What is this additional factor to consider as you decide what size bed to build?Jan 08, 2023
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WITD 101.57 Flogging Styles26 viewsFlogging styles evolve and everyone has some signature moves. Traditional hand holds lend themselves to styles that are mostly wrist or characterized by more arm motion. Finger style hand holds tend to associate more poi style related motions and patterns. Regardless of the style you end up with have fun flogging.Jan 08, 2023
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WITD 101.55 Fan or Whirly Bird Style28 viewsThe fan or as I call it whirly bird style is fairly common as a flogging technique. It is not a technique I normally teach because the goal is to be able to apply techniques you use with all classes of dungeon whips. While whirly bird works with a flogger, if a singletail is thrown with this style it causes undue, excessive torquing forces internal to the bolster and bellies of the whip. I contend it will make a singletail break down quicker and become a wet noodle regardless of how good the initial construction was. Many throw this style of singletail and if it is thrown with a finger flogger style grip the internal stresses are less, but I still do not personally recommend it. There are few don'ts as everyone finds a different path to whip throwing. The whirly bird used to throw a singletail is a don't in my opinion.Jan 07, 2023
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WITD 101.56 Singletail Grip with a Flogger20 viewsTraditionally a singletail is gripped by placing the heel knot in the palm of the hand forming a sort of ball and socket. Regardless of the singletail style or technique you are throwing or even the grip variation you are using this heel knot in the palm is commonly used. What if you place the heel knot of a flogger in the palm of your hand? What advantages and disadvantages are there in throwing a flogger with this grip?Jan 07, 2023
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WITD 101.54 Different Flogging Styles32 viewsThere are many different styles that evolve when throwing floggers. Sometimes the design of the tail influences throwing style. A traditional handle style flogger lends itself to swinging with the whole arm or using more wrist as the flogger is thrown either in a figure 8 or rotated as a fan blade. Finger floggers lend themselves to more poi spinning style and are easier to throw florentine and different spinning patterns with than a handle flogger. The handle of a traditional flogger can be used to add leverage to a throw if it is grasped by the heel knot instead of being grasp at the balance point.Jan 07, 2023
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Leather Houses 101.10 Building a Lifestyle Bed3 viewsIn 24 years in the lifestyle I've had the opportunity to build 4 lifestyle beds and also to own a house that had 2500 sq. ft. of dungeon space. The dungeons were used once or twice a month, the lifestyle bed was used every night. In prioritizing got to haves, move building a lifestyle bed to the top of your to-do list.Jan 07, 2023
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07 - What is a Little11 viewsCG/L relationships are part of the BDSM/leather scene. Caregiver and little relationships can take on a variety of roles. Littles can be literally any shape, size and age and can take the role of infant, early childhood or adolescent usually the submissive or childlike half of the relationship. The Dominant whether Daddy Dom, Mommy Domme or Caregiver usually is the dominant. However, sometimes the little takes the roll of Daddy or Mommy dominant just as in vanilla life children often dress up and play Mommy or Daddy. Littles require nurturing, love and protection. Rewards, expectations, establishing limits and requiring a respect for those limits sometimes results in discipline or punishment. Often a slap on the hand, time out in the corner or grounding is appropriate. Sometimes they simply need a spanking if corporal punishment has been negotiated.Dec 31, 2022
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WITD 101.53 Discretely Carrying Toys18 viewsFinding the perfect toybag is an adventure into itself. Often repurposing bags originally designed for a vanilla purpose are the most discrete way to carry toys. Guitar gig bags, arrow cases, even the toolbag from Home Depot. Some cases might cause undue and unwanted attention. So thoughtfully avoid those. A gun case might be perfect for carrying canes, but someone seeing you carrying it into a venue might mistakenly think you have an AR-15 in it. Learn to discretely carry your toys into a home, event or venue by carefully choosing your bag or carrying case.Dec 31, 2022
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WITD 101.52 Different Flogger Hand Holds24 viewsThere are numerous ways to hold a flogger. The most energy efficient is to hold it on the handle balance point. But a flogger can be held by gripping the heel knot, using a finger point grip, using a thumb push grip, using a poi style or finger flogger style grip, using a reverse hand hold. No wrong or right way as long is it is fun and it works for you and doesn't affect your accuracy or skill with the flogger.Dec 31, 2022
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WITD 101.52a Flogger Hand Holds20 viewsTraditionally floggers are held with a hand shake grip on the handle balance point of a well made balanced flogger. But there are many different holds and grips that can be used. Floggers are fun and every way to throw them adds a new dimension to impact play.Dec 31, 2022
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WITD 101.51 Flogger Balance24 viewsRevisiting flogger balance. Demonstration of several well balanced floggers as compared to a flogger that is not balanced well both by the same flogger maker.Dec 31, 2022
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WITD 501.22 Matched Set 12 Plait 4 ft9 viewsExtended discussion of a standard target bullwhip build in 12 plait single color matched set of 4' bullwhips. Normally built with 6" handles, some explanation of why I personally prefer 9" handles for my throwing style and discussion of why articulation is slightly better with 16 plait as compared to 12 plait.Dec 29, 2022
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